![]() I dunno, you have to know that rejection isn't personal and stop treating it as an attack on you as a human being. Just do it when you really feel you can ( and especially want ).Īcknowledge that you’ll have to be the ones to do that in most of the cases.Īnd there’s nothing wrong with it. It can be wonderful, if you see the girl is interested. I’m not saying approach is fantastic, and not even horrible… it’s just what you got to do. ![]() Guys… just approach girls when you feel you can do that. Only when I took my dating life into my own hands and started approaching women I liked (failed fck tons of time, tried to not take it personal and learn from my mistakes) started I see some success and the more success I experienced the better my confidence got and it snowballed from there. Ofc there are exceptions: extremely good looking guys (models, basically) will surely be approached, or very courageous girls will surely approach guys they like… but these are all extremely small percentages.Īs I was a shy guy myself in my early 20s, I had to accept that we guys are supposed to approach (and basically start everything) basically always. They’re not completely wrong sentences… but they’re just more true for girls (ofc not for all the girls). If you quit this mindset as soon as possible, you’ll start in the right way. Guys, don’t listen to people that say “love comes when you least expect it” or things like that. Mod harassment may result in a permanent ban.Ĭommunity Join us in Discord Online Resources If you have a question about moderation, please send a message to /r/dating_advice.ĭo not send mods pm's or chat requests.no articles or video links - Moderators do not have time to check external videos and links to make sure they follow sub and reddit rules and guidelines.If asking a question on a specific situation, please include the age and gender of both parties.You can state your opinion in a constructive manner. Any bashing, hateful attacks, or sexist remarks will be removed. Creating meaningful connections Community Guidelines Meeting people & starting conversations Established relationships longer than 6 months posts should go to r/relationship_advice ![]() Not discussions on the state of dating or generalized situations. Ask and offer advice for specific dating situations.
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